Why “Just Live With It” Isn’t Good Enough
- Dr. Maira Obnamia
- Sep 12
- 3 min read
Many women share similar stories. One mother admits she avoids the trampoline with her kids because of leaking. Another confides that intimacy after menopause has become uncomfortable and frustrating. Still another, after childbirth, says she simply doesn’t “feel like herself” anymore.
These concerns are deeply personal — yet incredibly common. Too often, the advice given is to “just live with it,” as though these changes are an inevitable part of womanhood. But coping is not the same as thriving.
The Missing Middle
Traditionally, options were limited: creams that provided minimal relief, pills that you have to remember to take, or major surgeries that felt extreme for day-to-day discomfort. Many women felt trapped between ineffective and invasive solutions.
This gap is exactly why Restore Wellness was created. Our goal is to offer evidence-based, non-surgical options that restore confidence and improve quality of life.
The EmpowerRF™ Platform
EmpowerRF brings together innovative treatments designed specifically for women’s pelvic health:
VTone®: A gentle, non-invasive way to strengthen pelvic floor muscles. Imagine doing thousands of Kegels in one session — without effort.
Plus90®: Uses comfortable radiofrequency warmth to restore elasticity and natural moisture in vaginal tissue.
Morpheus8V®: Combines microneedling with radiofrequency energy to remodel tissue from the inside out, improving tone and support.
And as a bonus, the same system also includes Morpheus8 for face and body, helping smooth wrinkles, improve texture, and tighten skin.
Why These Conversations Matter
As I began exploring EmpowerRF, I shared what I’d learned with my husband one evening while his family listened in. His reaction said it all — he had no idea that challenges like dryness, leakage, or pelvic changes were such a common part of women’s lives. That changed quickly when his mother and sister both chimed in, openly sharing that they had dealt with the very same issues.
That moment opened the door to conversations he never expected. He began asking his friends, and many of their wives confirmed they had similar concerns — often to their husbands’ shock. What struck me most was how many women had been quietly managing these struggles, never voicing them until someone finally brought the topic into the open.
He did this not just out of curiosity, but to help me decide whether bringing EmpowerRF into our clinic was the right course. Hearing these stories validated the need and reinforced that this wasn’t an isolated issue — it was something affecting women everywhere.
What This Means for Women
Restore Wellness represents a commitment to choice. No surgery. No long recovery. Just treatments designed to help you laugh, exercise, and connect without fear or discomfort.
This program was inspired by the very women who shared their stories with us. It’s a step toward making sure no one has to hear “just live with it” again.
💖 Ready to learn more? Visit restorewellness.woodbinefht.ca or call 416-291-4774.
Next Up (Sept 26): Fall is Your Skin’s Best Friend — Why Autumn is the #1 Season for Morpheus8 Treatments.

🍂 Coming This Fall: The Renewal & Awareness Blog Series
Over the next few months, we’ll be sharing blogs every two weeks on topics that matter most to women’s health and confidence:
Why fall is the perfect season for skin renewal
Understanding the perimenopause transition
How to choose the right skincare ingredients for your type
Non-surgical solutions for stress urinary incontinence
Confidence-boosting holiday wellness packages
Follow along as we explore these topics — and more — with insights from our Woodbine Family Health Team experts
Here’s to restoring your wellness, together.
— Dr. Maira Obnamia








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